FRIDAY NIGHT DINNERS

So a couple years ago I really got into watching Gilmore Girls (which is sadly now off the air). Soon my mother got into it and we ended up getting the box set of all seasons on dvd. On the show, mother and daughter are financially obligated to spend Friday nights with the mother's parents (otherwise known as Friday Night Dinners). This is the grandmother's way of tricking them into spending time together. Even though on the show, the night is considered to be a dreaded event, my mom and I thought it would be good for our family to get together and replicate this event. So for the past two Friday's we have gotten together, and had dinner at each other's houses. The plan is to rotate between our three homes, and whomever's turn it is to have it at their house, cooks the main meal. The other two will cook either the side dish(es) or desert(s). This also takes the financial burden off of one person to prepare the whole thing by themselves. It's going well so far. Last Friday it was at my sister's house. My mom bought hamburgers to grill, my sister made four delicious dips, and I made mini cheesecakes for desert. This week it's at my house, but we are changing the day to Saturday so my nephew can participate. Tim and I are cooking up chicken and veggies and letting everyone make their own quesadillias so Tim can throw them on the grill. My sister is making Alabama Dip, which is a yummy combination of cheese and ground beef. My mother, however, is leaving us all in the dark on what dessert she's making. This isn't surprising though. She likes to be the one to surprise us on what she's bringing. I hope this will become a tradition with us and bring us closer together as a family.

~Melissa~

DEBT REDUCTION

• Now that we have real people jobs and are out of school, our biggest goal is paying off all our debts, saving for a house, and a new(er) car for Tim. Between the two of us we have accumulated more debt than I ever wish to have again! So much, that I'm not even going to tell you the amount. Don't get me wrong, it's not as high as some people I know, just high enought that it used to give me panic attacks. To remedy this, I've spent the last year reading random financial books, all of which seem to just keep repeating themselves ("pay off your debts," "budget yourself," etc). So I just compiled the information and came up with a plan that worked for me.

• First and foremost, please keep in mind that I am NOT in anyway shape or form giving advise. I'm simply stating what's working for me, personally. Tim and I go with what is commonly known as the snowball method. This is where you take all of your debts, organize them by smallest to largest debt, then organize them by interest rates (for example, if you have two debts that are close to or equal $10,000, list the one with the highest interest rate first). We've done this and all of our 30 year school loans and car loans will be paid off by July 2017. I know this sounds a little crazy and drastic, but it works. We owe about $900 a month in debts. My Kohl's card was the first to go. After budgeting a little, we started paying $100 a week ($400 a month) on it until it was gone. This increased our debt budget to $1,300 a month. This is the amount that will never change. My Kohl's card was paid off in a little over a month, then it was to go toward a cash loan. I owe $55 a month on my cash loan, and they are expecting it to be paid off over 15 years. Now that I don't owe on my Kohl's card, all that extra money goes toward my cash loan. I pay $455 a month on it and it is NOW scheduled to be paid off July of 2011! Big change from 2025! After that's gone, I will add the $455 to my monthly car payment of $330 (now $785/month) which will now be paid off in March of 2012. This keeps going until we get to Tim's loan (which is the highest I might add). We only owe $175/month on this loan and at the end we will be paying $1,300/month on it! This is what a little discipline can do. We went from our debts being paid off in 2040+ to 2017 (that's a gain of 33 years we're not paying! Plus don't forget that you won't be paying interest on if for those extra 33 years).

• Now take it a little further. What if when we're done, we start putting that money in a savings account every month until 2040. Not counting gained interest we would have $514,800 over the 33 years we were scheduled to pay someone else. Tim & I would be in our 50's and have half a million dollars banked off the money that we were going to pay someone else! We would have a retirement fund, and extra money to retire comfortably at the age of 60 if we wanted to. I can't wait until 2017!

~Melissa~

Coasters!

So I've been trying to use some of my tons of fabric that I have just lying around the house. My office is stacked with containers filled with discontinued fabric samples that I've adopted from around town and from left over projects. And since we are trying to condense the office boxes, I've decided to make coasters out of these fabrics and sell them on etsy. The goal is to make up sets of four coasters to sell at $9.99 a set. Once there are ten sets made they will be posted on etsy. And I will try to constantly keep at least ten in stock at one time. I know this might seem to be a slightly higher price to pay for a set of coasters, but these aren't just thrown together light-weight fabric samples. These coasters consists of a top layer, a contrasting bottom layer, both made from upholstery grade fabric so they will be thicker than your typical cotton coasters. Plus as an added bonus, there is a layer of fleece between them to be absorbent when a glass should drip with condensation. Oh! Did I mention that I'm also paying the shipping costs as well? I've added some pictures of a set of coasters I made for my sister's birthday to give you a small idea of what they will look like. Plus, I've just inherited even more fabric from work due to mills discontinuing even more styles! Let me know what you think, and keep an eye out for them on etsy soon!

~Melissa~

While in New Orleans a couple of weeks ago we visited the lower ninth ward. This area was massively destroyed when hurricane Katrina hit in 2005. Parts of this area were received over 20 feet of water when the levy broke in 22 different places. Houses were lost, people were killed, and the area will never be the same. Here it is five years later, and a lot of the area is abandoned and people are still trying to put their lives back together. You would never know this by the crazy night life that still goes on just a few blocks over on Bourbon Street. People are still suffering. We were fortunate enough to visit the Holy Cross Project. This is a project to rebuild some of the area and provide sustainable housing for some of the victims of this hurricane. The area where these four homes reside was previously a ship yard pre-Katrina. Future plans for the area behind these homes include a community center and a building that will house 18 apartments. We toured the first completed home and were very surprised by how far technology has come. The house is 1,120 square feet and has been rated Platinum on the LEED scale. For those of you unaware, this is the highest rating you can receive for a green building. Only 1,444 residential homes have currently been given this award and most of those are still in production. Some of the big features include solar panels, a tank-less water heater, dual-flush toilets, rain water barrels, low-VOC paint throughout the home, and low flow faucets. When we arrived, we were stopped at the door and instructed to remove our shoes and place them on the porch. The air quality in the house is perfect and by wearing our shoes in the house, we would track in dirt and air particles that would jeopardize this. There are more windows on one side of the home than the other to heat the house during the day. They even thought ahead about the summers by planting a green wall where jasmine will grow in the spring and throughout the summer to take the brunt of the heat during these hot times. However, during the winter when the jasmine dies off, the house will be warmed naturally from the sun reducing the need to heat the house heavily. The house is filled with recycled products including rugs, furniture, art, tile, carpet. I have attached a few pictures of the home, but there is no substitute for seeing it in person. The houses are very affordable (at around $149,000) and will be offered first to the residents of the community who lived there before Katrina. They also are doing what I consider to be one of the best ideas in having the houses be a part of a condominium community where the home owners will pay condominium fees that will cover the cost of repair to the homes. So if a solar panel happened to break the fees you pay would go towards repair or replacement. This is huge for houses like this! It's like extra insurance to pay for what would normally be very costly repairs. I have seen similar houses like these in Little Rock go for well over $300,000. Yes, it is expensive upfront for a home such as this, but the assurance that you're monthly bills are going to be very low (if at all, and in some cases a credit is issued) is worth it in itself. Not to mention that you are doing a great thing the environment and helping in lessening your carbon footprint.

~Melissa~

Method

A few months ago I was browsing through Garden Ridge's book collection (which is about the only good thing left about Garden Ridge). The usual random craft and design books were selected. But there was one book that stood out to me. It's called "Squeaky Green." I read through the book for a whole week taking detailed notes and getting really into some of the eco-friendly methods. At the end of the book I noticed that they had a website and decided to check it out. On the website (www.methodhome.com) I found that they had products for keeping your house clean. A night or two later Tim & I made a trip to Lowes to check some of them out. We picked up shower sprays, scrubs, anywhere sprays, liquid soaps. A couple of months later, and we still love them! The book suggested not throwing away your current products, but to buy new ones as you use up your old not-so-eco-friendly.
For the liquid soap we currently have "sweet water." It's name says it all, just a light sweetness smell. The daily shower spray is great and doesn't have a harsh smell to it. The shower scrub has tiny pieces of granite in it along with a eucalyptus fragrance, which is great for clearing your sinuses! The anywhere spray is great for after dinner clean up. I even have a wish list for other products as we use up or old ones such as the floor mop. It has an ergonomic design with a washable microfiber cloth on the end (think swiffer). Then you buy polish based on the type of floor you're cleaning (wood, tile etc.). Also, there are dish tabs for your dishwasher (kind of like the finish tabs) that are on my list.
Other items that are too expensive for my taste include their laundry products. Laundry detergent and fabric softener will have to come down in price before I will even consider buying them. I still have my economical over-sized laundry soaps from Sam's to use up before I worry about that. And even then, Sam's has come out with a great smelling eco-friendly laundry detergent that is priced perfectly for our wallet!

~Melissa~

Smorgasbord Night

In our house we always seem to end up with odds and ends of leftovers, soon to expire, and just tasty food. To remedy this, we've come up with what we call "smorgasbord night." Without any planning ahead, making unnecessary trips to the grocery store, we open up the pantry and the refrigerator and start piecing together meals. We usually end up with a cheese platter of some sort, dips and chips, and leftover bratwursts and chicken sandwiches. This night became a favorite night in our house when we were first married and money was EXTREMELY tight. These were some of the tastiest concoctions to ever be created in our kitchen.
This is a great idea to help turn over food that needs to be eaten, and forces us not to get anything from the grocery store other than bare essentials like milk, eggs, bread, and cheese. We're even planning on in the future having a smorgasbord week once a month to help clear out the pantry and cut back on our weekly grocery bill.
As of now, we normally spend about $50/week in groceries. Imagine saving that money once a month and putting it towards something else (for those of us doing the math, that's $600 in savings). More than likely, our extra money will be going towards Christmas gifts for family and friends. Most of these gifts I make so $600 goes a long way for us. Try it out, it really works and helps you keep stock of what you actually have.
Til Later,
Melissa

Our Hand at a Semi-Organic Meal

This past Sunday we went shopping in the organic isle at Kroger. We found some sparkling water that was on sale for $1 each. Tim chose mixed berry which was pretty good, and I chose lemon-lime which was AWESOME! It really tastes like a sprite without all the sugar in it. It's completely sodium, sugar, carb, you name it-free. So I don't feel bad for enjoying it! Now, we're not ready for the grand leap into strictly organic, so after a lot of reading I found that frozen organic food is pretty much the first step in getting used to the higher prices of eating organic. This Ravioli was really really good! And easy to make! But then I ruined it by adding un-organic homemade alfredo sauce. We also got me an orgainc roma tomato to go with my un-organic salad to go with our un-organic french bread. We had a nice romantic dinner with our un-organic wine that we picked up at our favorite winery (Stone Hill).

For dessert, we bought some organic ice cream (I'm giving my kitchenaid mixer a little break from me). I got plain-ol chocolate while Tim found, get this, carrot cake! It had the most amazing combination of spices with real pieces of carrot cake in it as well! Now the chocolate was great too, especially since it was completely dairy-free!

Til Later,

~Mel~

Monday

Learning that you have to spend more money than you wanted is never a good surprise. My sister and brother-in-law borrowed my SUV this weekend to help my nephew move in to college. When they brought it back my brother-in-law informs me that I really need to get new tires. Now... this wasn't a complete newsflash to me since I've had this SUV for 4 years now and it has the original tires on it, but I didn't realize how soon I really needed them. So before we go on our little trip to New Orleans next month we will be getting new tires (front ones at least) and getting an alignment performed. Where does the money end???
Anyway, my nephew starts his freshmen year this year (*sniff sniff*). He got a full ride at Williams Baptist and will also be playing soccer for them (so proud)! I leave you with this: a spot on the news where he appears (he's the blonde with a ton of hair)
Til later,
~Mel

Monday

-No Tim at work today. I hate when I have to go to work with out him. The day drags on longer and I feel just half there. I miss my best friend. At least when I got home I got a great greeting along with a great dinner.
-No day after my B-day off. I was going to have this day off to go with my mom and sister to Mena. We were going to dig up some info on our family history and take pictures of gravestones and scan in any documents and pictures we can find. This will not happen (for me anyway). Two people decided to take the same week off for vacation. So now not only do I not get this day off, we all have to work open to close the whole week. (sadness)

Here's to hoping that this week starts to look up,

~Melissa~

Ok, before this picture....
-Had a great morning at church. We got up early enough to make some coffee with our keurig and headed off to listen to Pastor Marcus Brown. He spoke on how God is always there for us, noticing and encouraging us. He related it to a story of a Miss America winner from Oklahoma who grew up poor. She said that after school she would sit and wait for the bus, and the local milk man would come by, put his hand on her head and say "how's my lil' Miss America today?" This continued until she was in jr. high and started to compete in pagents, and into high school when she started winning them. Just by that encouragement everyday she followed through with a dream. God encourages us in the same way.
-After the weekly grocery shopping at both Wal-Mart & Kroger (Kroger's prices are too high, and Wal-Mart has horrible produce!) we went to moms. We gave her the cricut cartridge I had gotten for her earlier in the week and received coupons and a copy of the Maumelle Monitor in return.
-We decided to head out to the Benton Flea Market and just go wherever else we felt (which ended up being kohl's, hibbit sports, and old navy where we picked up some $2.50 flag tees). Then off to Lowes to get a refill of the Method shower spray and another thing of soap for our other bathroom. (For those who don't know... Method is a brand of completely natural ingredients. We love their soaps and plan on getting more as our other chemically enhanced products become empty.)
-Then it was Fresh Market! We love going in here even though we can't afford to buy much. I'm starting the ground work to introduce organic into our diets. So far we've decided that onions and potatoes aren't bad on the wallet. Eggs and milk at nearly $4 each is still a little ridiculous (I did try to convince Tim that we need our own chicken to have organic eggs someday but lost that battle).
-Now back to the picture. This is us attempting to run from the car to our front door. We were both ankle-deep in water it rained so hard. Needless to say, it stopped raining a few minutes after we dried off! (Figures!) We spent the rest of the night eating dinner and watching a HORRIBLE movie (Bruno)! Never again!!!!! It was just all sorts of awkwardness and crazy!
-Til Later,

~Mel~

Rainy Summer Day

We love our new Keurig! The coffee is smother & it makes the perfect amount with out any waste, in less time. (Great for quick & on the go!) The bad part was having to go to work this morning. The day was long, our power flickered with the rain, and our boss was there for a while. I had one customer, however, that touched me. She was an older woman who came in by herself looking for some dinning chairs to go with her antique table. After showing her a few she landing on looking a sofas too. Her husband had passed away this past April and she had moved into an apartment. She was also mostly legs like me so we bonded on the fact that I could just take her to all the sofas that I liked because they fit longer-legged people. She got to meet Tim and we talked for about an hour and a half before she decided on some furniture, hugged and thanked me, and said she'd be back on Monday to purchase. She also gave me the advice to hug Tim every chance I had (she thought he was the cutest thing!). So even though sales were a bust for me, it was nice to know that I was appreciated for just being me for a change. Now that we're home (YAY!!!), Tim & I plan on spending the rest of our evening eating dinner and watching a yet-to-be determined movie.
Goodnight All!
~Mel~

Work is slow. Having Tim around is great. We work so well together, and customers think that we own the store! LOL! In the mean time I'm trying to work with Tim on laying the ground work for starting my own business. I would love to eventually work with Tim on both of our dreams.
The Etsy Business isn't moving how I'd like it either. My scarves aren't selling & the season for them is almost over. The next project: coasters. I have inherited some fabric from work and am about to get busy sewing. So keep a look out for them because they will be priced to move!

I have discovered a new love..... Almond Joy Pieces! They are way too expensive, but satisfy me greatly. They combine my love for chocolate and coconut with almonds in every bite! Unfortunately everyone else in the household loves them too.

the new job

So, Tim's new job didn't pan out. They had unreal expectations, very little pay, and no benefits whatsoever. Now.. the weird but good news: Tim got a job with me! That's right, at Cleo's! We're going to tag team and potentially make a lot of money (crosses fingers). Business cards will have both of our info on them, and we will recommend each other if the other isn't going to be there. We'll just see how all this goes, but I'm hoping it works well.
In the mean time, I've started my ETSY! For those of you who don't know what etsy is, it's kind of like ebay but for crafty people. You make handmade items and sell them. I've only posted one item, but when I have time, I have plenty to post. Right now, I'm making "skurfs." They are otherwise known as infinity scarves. They are just round scarves that can be doubled around your neck. And for those of you who have received scarves from me in the past, yes they are made from the same yarn. I've even found another type of yarn that is just as soft and easy to work with. Please check them out and give me some feedback as to colors you'd like to see etc...

Tim got a job! yay!!! He's on day 3 of his new job at The Design Group, and seems to be fairing well. I'm happy! We now BOTH have big people hours and are really tired when we get home. The overall plan is to still stay at mom's for another couple of months to save up some money and pay off a couple of things. After that (sometime in April) we plan on either getting an apartment, or BUYING a house, now that we officially qualify for the first time home buyers ($8,000 tax credit...) and everything! Thing are starting to look up for us and I'm excited to see what happens next in the Christy chapter of life.

• Oh my goodness! So today was my first day at Cleo's. It was pretty good. No, I haven't sold anything yet, but the experience was nice. The people were very welcoming, and I've already learned a lot!
• My shoes, however, did not make it 30 minutes in! They felt great on my feet, but the sole in them was already coming out in the toe! Needless to say, they will be returned to the store!
• I'm really think I wouldn't be as tired at this moment if it hadn't been for me also working the community center this morning too. 8am-12pm there, then 1pm-7:30pm at Cleo's barely left me anytime to eat! But luckily Tim was there and made me cinnamon roll oatmeal this morning, a whole can (yes... I was hungry) of ravioli for lunch, and reheated the yummy tacos for dinner when I got home tonight. .... I have a winner!!!
• Oh! P.S. - The pic is of the awesome night light my in-laws got me for Christmas. I just felt it about time that it showed up in one of our many pictures. So I leave you with a quote: "Oh, look at that! Will you look at that? Isn't that glorious? It's... it's... it's indescribably beautiful! It reminds me of the Fourth of July!" - of course, from A Christmas Story
  

• All of the family is gone today, but yesterday was a GREAT day! While I was at work I got a call from an unknown number. But they did leave a voicemail and my jaw dropped when I listened. It was from Cleo's! Now, because I haven't been updating regularly at all, no one knows that I saw an ad in the paper a couple weeks ago saying that they wanted a sales associate. No one knows that I got all dressed up, when down there, filled out an application, and had two on the spot interviews right there. No one knows that I got called back earlier this week saying that they wanted to do a follow up interview. And no one knows that they called me that same day and told me that they had given the job to someone who had four years experience in furniture sales.

Now, back to the point...

• My voicemail was from the same lady at Cleo's that told me I hadn't got the job. She said that her manager had come in the store yesterday and decided that because of tax season, they could really use another person! She asked me if I was still interested (um... YEAH!). So after talking to my current boss, we worked it out where I would work through the rest of this month in the mornings, and go train at Cleo's in the afternoon.

• I'm so sad to be leaving the community center, mainly because of the kids. It has been nice to catch up with old friends, and obviously very comfortable getting off at noon everyday and being able to do whatever I want the rest of the afternoon. But I know that this is a step in the right direction for me. And not only for me, but for the goals that Tim & I share in starting our lives together (again).

Today was nice, we are currently waiting the arrival of my Aunt, cousin, and my cousin's baby. I spent most this week working on my application materials to send off to Savannah College of Art and Design (SCAD). I'm so ready to start in March, keeping my fingers crossed that I actually get in! My digital portfolio looks awesome! I must say I'm pretty proud.
Eventually I'll get around to posting some of the crafts that I've been up to lately. I made a ton of rice bags for Christmas presents, a purse roll to hold all of my junk that goes from one purse to another, and I've already started on Christmas goodies for 2010.

Well, I'm off to wait, tomorrow's another day!
~Melissa~